Say "GOOD-BYE" to overwhelm

Dr B's Musings & Living Beyond ADHD Podcast

Do You Forgive Yourself or Others - 083 Mar 03, 2021
 

Forgiveness is a gift.  We can give this gift at any time - to ourselves or to others.  It’s our “get out of jail” gift card – releasing each of us from a prison of our own making.  When we refuse to forgive, and choose to hold onto mistakes and use them against ourselves or others, we are sett...

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Do You Forfeit Your Time? Feb 26, 2021

Have you ever not used your allotted vacation days and regretted it, because they didn’t roll over?

Losing vacation days is not uncommon. For some employees they can accumulate vacation time, but for many if those days are not taken in the calendar year, they are forfeited.

And too often I hear pe...

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What's Keeping You Stuck - 082 Feb 17, 2021
 

Jim Rohn said - "For things to change, you have to change."

It seems very obvious when you think about it, for things to change, you have to change. I've been thinking about this quote a lot lately. And it's taken on a much deeper meaning for me, because he didn't say, for things to change, yo...

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If Your Feelings of Overwhelm Have Kicked into High Gear - 081 Dec 19, 2020
 

Feeling overwhelmed isn’t automatically a positive or a negative experience; it depends on the emotion and on the meaning you give to the emotion you’re feeling.  You could be overwhelmed with gratitude and self-love or overwhelmed with grief and shame.

The meaning I give overwhelmed is that i...

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What Is There to Celebrate? Nov 18, 2020

2020 has been a roller coaster. As the end of the year approaches, many holidays are coming up — yet some people are asking themselves what there is to celebrate.

It depends on where you look, because what you focus on grows.

You could start with the little things. As I always say, it’s important ...

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You Think It’s ADHD That’s Been Biting You in The Butt All These Years - 080 Nov 18, 2020
 

Being an Achiever isn’t just about developing your EF Skills; you also need to become the person who is the Achiever, instead of thinking of yourself as the person who is the ADDer.  Saying “I am an Achiever” is the first step to taking on an empowering new Identity, just as saying “I am an ADD...

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Perfectionism: The Biggest Culprit of Procrastination Aug 27, 2020

Is perfectionism preventing you from making deadlines or finishing projects?

For some people, it keeps them from even getting started.

Procrastination is a symptom of something else. It’s a behavior that results from something going on in our heads preventing us from taking action.

 

One of the ...

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What Lies Within You Aug 12, 2020

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the ripple effect.

Like a drop in a pool of water, our lives touch other lives. We don’t really know how one action might affect someone else down the road.

Mother Teresa famously said, “We ourselves feel that what we are doing is just a drop in the ocean. But...

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"Shelf-Help" Can Do More Harm Than Good - 079 Jun 30, 2020
 

According to government stats, last updated in 2018, there are a lot of unhappy people that are suffering in the world. In the U.S. alone:

  • 32 million people suffer from anxiety
  • 17 million suffer from depression
  • Around 12 million suffer from PTSD

And, according to Forbes magazine, the Se...

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Dr B Interviewed By Meredith For Real: The Curious Introvert - 078 Jun 15, 2020

I have something a little different for you today.  In case you missed listening to my interview with Meredith for Real:  The Curious Introvert, she was kind enough to share the episode with me, so I could share it with you all directly.  I love responding to questions and thoroughly enjoyed my i...

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